The things that scare us the most, ends up becoming our favourite one

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Hey guys! How are you all doing ? I hope 2025 is treating you well. And if it's not? Don't worry- just blame it on Mercury retrograde or some planetary alignment messing things up. Overslept? must be the moon in pisces. Feeling extra dramatic? probably Leo season. Made a terrible decision? Oh!well, blame it on your rising sign. Life's uncertainties  suddenly feel a little more manageable when we can pin them on the stars. I mean isn't that what we all do when life is chaotic? 😅 ("It's not me it's my zodiac sign acting up!").

         Anyway,  back to  why I am here it's been a while since I last posted and I have got something really interesting to share today something that I recently experienced first hand. you ever noticed as how the things that scares us the most somehow end up  becoming the things we love the most? Sounds crazy, right? 

                It's funny how the things we dread the most sometimes turn into the things we love the most. At first, they feel impossible. Too big, too complicated, too terrifying. But somehow, we grow into them.

             Back in 10th grade, I was terrified of taking maths. I wasn't confident at all and honestly, I thought I would fail miserably. But somehow, I went through it step by step and cleared it.  and before you ask No-still I still don't like Maths! that's not the point I am trying to make here the point is nothing is ever as big or as impossible as we think it is we just love to over complicate things in our heads and stress ourselves out for no reason.

         And guess what? Life decided to repeat this same lesson again. Recently, I was posted in my pediatric department and people around me made it sound like absolute hell. I kept hearing how tough it was, how demanding it would be, and naturally, I started reading it. But the moment I actually stepped inside, I swear I loved it. Everything about it fascinated me. The fear I had? completely unnecessary. 

         

         The worst thing is that fear always makes things seem worse than they actually are. Before we even try, our mind creates a whole dramatic scene about how hard or scary something is going to be. But reality, it's never as bad as we imagine. We just have to take that first step and before we know it, we adapt.

              It's the same with so many things in life. Think about how kids struggle to ride a bicycle at first. It's all wobbly, filled with falls and bruises. But once they get the hang of it, cycling becomes their favorite thing. The same happens with learning a new language, moving to a new city, or even stepping into a new phase of life. At first, everything feels overwhelming. But slowly we figure things out and one day we look back and wonder why we were ever scared in the first place. 

                     Maybe that's just how life works. Growth isn't supposed to be comfortable. Something feels too big for us right now. Maybe it's just a sign that we are meant to grow into it. The only way to know for sure is to step in and give it a shot. Who knows, what scares you today might just become your favorite thing tomorrow. But with time, effort and just diving into it, we grow into the challenge. The shirt that once felt too big, one day without even realizing it, we fit into it perfectly. That's how life is. 

      So next time something freaks you out, maybe don't be so quick to run from it. Who knows, a few months down the line, you might just find yourself saying, "I actually kinda love this".